Teach us about going giving a massage to a girl or to a guy? I’ve seen both in swingers club, but it was long time ago.
Would you go to swing club?
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I always wondered why couples don’t get together at home regularly after successful meeting in swingers club? It would make sense, but I guess that’s not the nature of these clubs. Just a hypothetical question.
It's hard to get two couples with four way attraction to meet on a regular basis. More than that is like herding cats, imho. We did it once. In about 10 years swinging off and on.
Understand of course. I might be an old school, but I always feel more comfortable if I know person (s) well. Same relates to escorts, dommes, etc.
Swing clubs aren't for everyone, It's great that you're open-minded though, everyone has their own preferences when it comes to these things.
I went to a swing club 20 ish years ago.
It was an invite only thing, in Vegas.
GF at the time was American and had connections.
There was about 40 people there or 20 couples. There was all kinds of fucking all over the place but still kind of discrete, as it was a lot of couples fucking in the bar booths and along the outer walls, BJ's under tables and grinding ect..
Dead center of the bar was was a lower platform you had to take about 2 steps to get down, was probably a dance floor other nights.
This night it was centre stage, it had 4 large couches lining around the other edges of the dance floor with a leather padded large table about knee height. There was a large number of people that seemed shy including me and my gf there was a few not so.
On 1 of the coaches there was a very "not" shy couple going full at it. They were alone down on the lower floor and had most of every one's eyes on them.
My GF said to me there probably ringers, hired talent to accelerate the party.
I jokingly ask her if she want to go down there. She smiled grab my hand and pulled me to the coach opposite of them. Lol
And bang we were in the middle of about 40 people going for a full on fuck for about an hour. The couple across from us was intensely staring at us as we were them, felt like a bit of a competition lol.
At one point the chick came over to my girl and asked , can I suck your mans dick. So for a BJ we swapped.
It was rely weared at first but once we got going it was a good time.
The people there were very respectful, seemed like a very experienced group of people.
It was an invite only thing, in Vegas.
GF at the time was American and had connections.
There was about 40 people there or 20 couples. There was all kinds of fucking all over the place but still kind of discrete, as it was a lot of couples fucking in the bar booths and along the outer walls, BJ's under tables and grinding ect..
Dead center of the bar was was a lower platform you had to take about 2 steps to get down, was probably a dance floor other nights.
This night it was centre stage, it had 4 large couches lining around the other edges of the dance floor with a leather padded large table about knee height. There was a large number of people that seemed shy including me and my gf there was a few not so.
On 1 of the coaches there was a very "not" shy couple going full at it. They were alone down on the lower floor and had most of every one's eyes on them.
My GF said to me there probably ringers, hired talent to accelerate the party.
I jokingly ask her if she want to go down there. She smiled grab my hand and pulled me to the coach opposite of them. Lol
And bang we were in the middle of about 40 people going for a full on fuck for about an hour. The couple across from us was intensely staring at us as we were them, felt like a bit of a competition lol.
At one point the chick came over to my girl and asked , can I suck your mans dick. So for a BJ we swapped.
It was rely weared at first but once we got going it was a good time.
The people there were very respectful, seemed like a very experienced group of people.
I have lived in Phoenix for many decades, but I have visited Toronto for usually a week for over 20 years—especially in the summer to escape our record-breaking heat. We are still near 100 F, but it's starting to get too cold up there.
Our normal high now is mid-80s, which is comfortable with our very low humidity.
Previously, Minneapolis areas escaped the cold, snow, and mosquitoes decades ago. In Mpls, it was 88F, but due to the humidity difference, it was like 110 degrees here in Phoenix.
I was last in Toronto in May. I was too busy with business to get away this summer. I also want to go to Montreal again and sometime Ottawa.
I have taught couples Esalen like massage, but I have zero interest in massaging men. I am a 0 on the Kinsey scale. I admire those who are bi since they have more enjoyable options. I can hug a man fine, but anything more is a turnoff to me and not interested.
One of the best times was in Toronto with an Asian, very nice guy who read about me on Terb and asked me if I could do my type of massage on his girlfriend for an hour, and he rented a massage table and a room. It was beautiful; she was in heaven and lasted over 2 hours. With the last part, he was mirroring me with each of us on the other side of her body.
That is why I used to love doing nude-reverse massages like at Allure. Often got purrs and comments like: "You really know what your doing". However, I am too much of a couch potato, and for about the last 5 years, even though I try and bend at the waist, I get terrible lower back aches - especially since most massage parlor tables are not high enough for my 6-1, obviously since most massage gals are much shorter. I need to do exercises to strengthen my 78-year-old core. The other solution may be wearing a lower back brace, but that would be awkward at a massage place.
For escorts, I do it somewhat on a bed, but since, oddly, I have always enjoyed more sensual high-touch intimacy than the usual sex stuff, my interest is more in massage parlors. Also, strip clubs with full contact (above the waist), which I enjoy doing my stuff usually with great response.
I haven't seen an escort or massage place in Phoenix for over 5 years. There are no good options, and of course, there are legal issues. I do enjoy some Phoenix strip clubs since the ordinance where dancers for a "lap dance" could not be in laps, but legs had to straddle the arms of the chair since bodies could not touch. Technically, a fully clothed standing hug was illegal since breasts would touch even over clothing. Thanks to the Christian "save neighborhood snd children" that wrote the ordinance, including making swing clubs illegal and trying to have Phoenix to be the model to use all over the US. I testified against the laws at City Council hearings.
Good point. In our Liberated Christians couples group of about 100, some couples did meet outside, but we were more poly (actually cared about people vs just recreational sex of swinging).
If a single man wants "swinging" type sex, FKK clubs in Germany seem far more practical since there are many reasons why most couples have no interest in single men by themselves. Some of it is usually men's jealousy issues, but couples are more comfortable with couples most of the time. I was a speaker at many national Lifestyles swing conferences long ago. "Swinging Christians not a biblical Conflct" sessions got lots of interest - and had video and audio tapes of it sold for years afterward. But it was very out of place only being at the conventions as a speaker without a partner at a couples swing convention (which was the largest in the US for years).
My other "problem" with swinging is I am not very attracted physically to typical middle-aged couples. I enjoy carassessing the smooth skin of younger women (like under 40) even though I am 78 and spoiled since I have so many experiences with strippers and escorts that are 20s-40 and have slimmer bodies, small butts and small natural breasts. I am very picky.
I used to go quite often back when they first became a thing in Toronto. I mean, it was fucking great and I loved it. Fucking loved it. Then she got cold feet and slammed the brakes on.
I still want to go.
Don't ever put up with your woman setting the lines on YOUR sexlife.
I still want to go.
Don't ever put up with your woman setting the lines on YOUR sexlife.
I'm in the exact same situation. I did take a sugarbaby to one of the clubs last year. Didn't end up swinging but the sex was incredible as was the "show"
I missed it. Also, my ex regular SP wanted to try one with me as well but wouldn't go to one in the GTA. Pity.