Anyone here ever date or start a relationship with a SP?
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I had a four year relationship with a SP. It worked for both of us until I fucked it up. How I did so is irrelevant, but it stemmed from getting tired of everything and not willing to put in the effort any more. TBH, it was a good 4 years.
I have.
It's like any relationship, maybe a little more complicated due to the line of work, I have good memories and not so good ones. Things didn't work out in the end.
After we broke up she started hanging out with the wrong people and exactly eight years ago she passed away from an overdose at only twenty-three.
It's like any relationship, maybe a little more complicated due to the line of work, I have good memories and not so good ones. Things didn't work out in the end.
After we broke up she started hanging out with the wrong people and exactly eight years ago she passed away from an overdose at only twenty-three.
All of us TERBites have wonky relationships with our spouses/GFs because things are dysfunctional and we hide things... SP/John relationships have the potential to be successful if they begin with honesty and effort is made.
Would you not even try to date a SP who you've hit it off with, who's attractive and who's an expert at sex? Add in great conversation, snuggles, Netflix binging and she makes you a sandwich every now and then?! She might just be a keeper.
You'd have to have a big wiener to apply though. I'm sure she'd be used to BWC/BBC.
Would you not even try to date a SP who you've hit it off with, who's attractive and who's an expert at sex? Add in great conversation, snuggles, Netflix binging and she makes you a sandwich every now and then?! She might just be a keeper.
You'd have to have a big wiener to apply though. I'm sure she'd be used to BWC/BBC.
So sorry. Mean that sincerely. Hope you are ok.
Yes. I'm pretty strong minded and understanding how life works. That's not to say things could change afterwards. But it would highly depend on the person's overall well being. I say that because similar to another post "effort" plays a key role. It happens to women too who deal with a meh SO eventually and they get tired of the effort. People do have breaking points; it's human nature of course. Most people don't stick around if someone has certain issues. For me it would depend what certain issues were or can be. Are people fine with a bit of physical stuff? And that's a topic I won't be getting into this thread. There's already articles about why people do based on their psychology. I do have limits, but if the person overall is fine with a few things here or there because life isn't always happy moments that's never been a deal breaker with me. Any relationship deals with that. And of course based on the few SPs I've seen out of my life I didn't get to know them (quite a few I know just off hand I wouldn't want to lol), but based on stories from other people and the type of person they dated certain things would eventually bug me too. Some people have ex's they wish they could still deal with and be with. I don't so far.
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