Aimee James - Any info because she refuses to provide any

RebelinBed

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So I reached out to Aime James to inquire and I really just don't understand her interactions via text. I've attached the screenshots below. Also, here are her LL and Tryst ads, because like... Am I missing something?

How are we supposed to know if we want to book with an SP if the SP isn't willing to provide the information necessary to make an informed decision on if we'd like to see them or not? Is that not the point of inquiries?

Can anybody explain this to me? Cause I'm lost. Yeah, her rates are on her Tryst profile like she said but her services and restrictions are not and she is not willing to provide them over text. So like what the hell 🤷🏼‍♂️


 

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shakenbake

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So I reached out to Aime James to inquire and I really just don't understand her interactions via text. I've attached the screenshots below. Also, here are her LL and Tryst ads, because like... Am I missing something?

How are we supposed to know if we want to book with an SP if the SP isn't willing to provide the information necessary to make an informed decision on if we'd like to see them or not? Is that not the point of inquiries?

Can anybody explain this to me? Cause I'm lost. Yeah, her rates are on her Tryst profile like she said but her services and restrictions are not and she is not willing to provide them over text. So like what the hell 🤷🏼‍♂️


If she gives you attitude, why bother?
 

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So I reached out to Aime James to inquire and I really just don't understand her interactions via text. I've attached the screenshots below. Also, here are her LL and Tryst ads, because like... Am I missing something?

How are we supposed to know if we want to book with an SP if the SP isn't willing to provide the information necessary to make an informed decision on if we'd like to see them or not? Is that not the point of inquiries?

Can anybody explain this to me? Cause I'm lost. Yeah, her rates are on her Tryst profile like she said but her services and restrictions are not and she is not willing to provide them over text. So like what the hell 🤷🏼‍♂️


Well, if she gives that answer of people don't come if she gives that info..

Then it sounds like she herself is the waste of time and you shouldn't bother..

I agree with you that if I don't know what's provided then I'm not going to see her, because if you have no info it's that much easier to be like no I don't do that, etc.
 

RebelinBed

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The reason I made a post about it is because she isn't the only one who does this. A lot of times trying to get ladies to tell you their rates, services, and restrictions is like pulling teeth these days. Idk why it's become like this.
 
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So question,

if I put all those in my ad, am I then ok to redirect back to my ad when asked for rates and stuff or should I just answer and repeat myself constantly?

I’m asking honestly. Because lately I have been referring back to my ad. My rates, service and general location (north Whitby) are all included. And I still get asked. Says in red and bold, “please read the whole ad”. Rates and services are in bold. Location is in title, I don’t know what more to do.

At this point I want to just ignore the texters but then they keep texting because they are not getting any answer.
 
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So question,

if I put all those in my ad, am I then ok to redirect back to my ad when asked for rates and stuff or should I just answer and repeat myself constantly?

I’m asking honestly. Because lately I have been referring back to my ad. My rates, service and general location (north Whitby) are all included. And I still get asked. Says in red and bold, “please read the whole ad”. Rates and services are in bold. Location is in title, I don’t know what more to do.

At this point I want to just ignore the texters but then they keep texting because they are not getting any answer.
What about just copy your ad content into a text macro? Many of the responses I get are clearly done like that, because there's no way someone can type that fast.
 

shakenbake

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So question,

if I put all those in my ad, am I then ok to redirect back to my ad when asked for rates and stuff or should I just answer and repeat myself constantly?

I’m asking honestly. Because lately I have been referring back to my ad. My rates, service and general location (north Whitby) are all included. And I still get asked. Says in red and bold, “please read the whole ad”. Rates and services are in bold. Location is in title, I don’t know what more to do.

At this point I want to just ignore the texters but then they keep texting because they are not getting any answer.
Points well taken. However, this particular advertiser doesn’t give much useful info, compared to conscientious advertisers such as yourself.
 
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Jenesis

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What about just copy your ad content into a text macro? Many of the responses I get are clearly done like that, because there's no way someone can type that fast.
I have that but to be honest, it is annoying. I really want to say. “READ THE FUCKING AD IDIOT!” But I can’t. I have to be professional. However I don’t think some of these men will learn unless told.

What if I wrote something like:

“Thank you for your inquiries however all the information you are looking for is in my ad. Please refer back to the ad and then feel free to contact me when ready to book or if you have a question you couldn’t find the answer to.”

If I am being honest, I am pretty busy for the volume I want to take. Which is already minimal. I really don’t want to see men that I have to hand hold through the process. I love when a man contacts me already knowing what he wants and has spent the time getting the information ahead of time. I take time and put in effort into my ad, I equally want a guy who puts in some effort. And I can be picky enough to ensure that. If that makes sense.
 

Jenesis

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Points well taken. However, this particular advertiser doesn’t give much useful info, compared to conscientious advertisers such as yourself.
She did not. Her rates were posted but nothing else, so I get you. I don’t know why the ladies don’t put it in the ad. We can’t get in trouble anymore and it is more dangerous for men to ask these question in text because that is what can get you busted. It makes no sense to me.
 

justplainbob

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I have that but to be honest, it is annoying. I really want to say. “READ THE FUCKING AD IDIOT!” But I can’t. I have to be professional. However I don’t think some of these men will learn unless told.

What if I wrote something like:

“Thank you for your inquiries however all the information you are looking for is in my ad. Please refer back to the ad and then feel free to contact me when ready to book or if you have a question you couldn’t find the answer to.”

If I am being honest, I am pretty busy for the volume I want to take. Which is already minimal. I really don’t want to see men that I have to hand hold through the process. I love when a man contacts me already knowing what he wants and has spent the time getting the information ahead of time. I take time and put in effort into my ad, I equally want a guy who puts in some effort. And I can be picky enough to ensure that. If that makes sense.
Throw in a link to the ad maybe?

I get what you're saying, but you are certainly in the minority of providers in this area.

/Bob
 

RebelinBed

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I have that but to be honest, it is annoying. I really want to say. “READ THE FUCKING AD IDIOT!” But I can’t. I have to be professional. However I don’t think some of these men will learn unless told.

What if I wrote something like:

“Thank you for your inquiries however all the information you are looking for is in my ad. Please refer back to the ad and then feel free to contact me when ready to book or if you have a question you couldn’t find the answer to.”

If I am being honest, I am pretty busy for the volume I want to take. Which is already minimal. I really don’t want to see men that I have to hand hold through the process. I love when a man contacts me already knowing what he wants and has spent the time getting the information ahead of time. I take time and put in effort into my ad, I equally want a guy who puts in some effort. And I can be picky enough to ensure that. If that makes sense.
I think that would be a good idea!

As someone who has worked in hospitality for the last 10-ish years, let me tell you... People. Don't. Fucking. Read. Signage, menus, literally anything (including these forums which is literally the point of them) Either out of laziness or obliviousness. Leaves us with competence to read for them lol

You are one of few providers who know how to do your job and run your business well. People just suck.
 

RebelinBed

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She did not. Her rates were posted but nothing else, so I get you. I don’t know why the ladies don’t put it in the ad. We can’t get in trouble anymore and it is more dangerous for men to ask these question in text because that is what can get you busted. It makes no sense to me.
This is another thing. It makes no sense. If they put it in the ad it would make everything easier for everyone.