Hi Sweetie
I joined terb a while back but I have been active only recently and I deplore your set back. The tone of your posts indicates a well adjusted mature and intelligent person and I would very much love to meet you and maybe you would like to touch base with another lovely and intelligent lady who may be interested in meeting you. She is Summer and has a web site:
www.sensuoussummer.com
For my part, I have adopted the lifestyle of Sp/'hobbyist as well as swinging and group parties. I certainly have no problem meeting other men who also embrace this open and free lifestyle. If CAS is not riding your back too closely, let me know if and how we could meet to chat over a drink or coffee. I definitely would enjoy meeting you.